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January 26, 2025

Dear Friends,

Please consider joining the Facebook private group! I’m overflowing with gratitude and excitement as I share what inspired me to start this private group. This group is an extension of the powerful connections I found during my 50 States Project, where sharing food became a beautiful symbol of survival, safety, and belonging—something that has been a cornerstone of humanity since the beginning of time.

As with anything I do, I began this journey knowing it wouldn’t be perfect. I often say, “It’s easier to make ugly beautiful than to wait for perfection—because perfection is impossible.” So, I launched this project humbly, starting in my own home over the past few months.

The conversations and connections that have come from these gatherings have been nothing short of amazing. I’ve been inviting three people at a time—sometimes close friends, sometimes people I only know through social media—and the magic of it all is that they often don’t know one another. (Though I once accidentally brought two dear friends together—what a reminder of how beautifully small our world can be!)

Now, the #FlipTheBox movement is taking on a national stage. Next week, I’ll be sharing this vision during my TEDxEustis talk, and in just a few weeks, my book will be released!

Looking ahead to 2026, I plan to travel to different parts of the U.S., hopefully reuniting with some of the incredible women I met during my 50 states journey. Together, we’ll host potlucks that foster belonging and connection—creating a table where everyone has a seat.

Thank you for being part of this dream and helping make it a reality. The ripple effect of #FlipTheBox is already creating community, reminding us that we are stronger together. Listening will always be more powerful than arguing, and it’s our differences that make us resilient and unique. At the end of the day, we all need food to sustain us, love to guide us, and connection to remind us that we’re more alike than we are different.

We’re just humans, doing our best and loving who we love.

I hope to see you at my table one day—and maybe even sit at yours.

In hope, love, and community,

– SHARI LEID, AUTHOR OF TABLE FOR 51: Lessons Learned From Sharing Meals Across America 

Shari

Dana Frank, Real Estate Investor, Community activist, writer, and Co-Blogger at menopausebarbees.com 

“Women connecting with other women is truly a powerful resource. Shari Leid's ability to open dialogue with women sharing their achievements, challenges, and vulnerability with such transparency and authenticity is remarkable. This book as with The 50/50 Friendship Flow, and Make Your Mess Your Message, is a gift and treasure. These stories resonate and empower all to know we are not alone on this journey.”

Chanel Reynolds, founder of Get Your Shit Together, author of WhatMatters Most. The Get Your Shit Together Guide to Wills, Money, Insurance, and Life’s ‘What-ifs’

“Who is the executor of your will? Your health care advocate? The guardian of your children or pets? Shari’s book gets to the heart of what true wealth looks like, friendships and community. With expert storytelling, humor, and grace Shari speaks to us with the best-friend-realness and words of wisdom we all need to hear. Getting our shit together means getting our friendships in order and showing up for ourselves and each other. Reach out and connect, a rich world of friendships is available to all of us.”

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About the Author

Former litigator turned empowering reinvention coach, Shari Leid, has dedicated her life to guiding individuals in recognizing and harnessing their intrinsic power.

Through transformative conversations and results-driven practices, Shari aids both men and women in navigating through life’s intricacies and embracing an authentically imperfectly perfect life.

She is a national speaker and the author of the nationally acclaimed books:

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Meet the 50 States Women

Meet the women on Shari's journey. Click a flag on any state or use the arrows to see who Shari is meeting on her latest adventure.

Nicole - New Mexico
Nancy - Hawaii
Anna - Arizona
Catherine - Nevada
Paula - Florida
Hannah - California
Brie - Missouri
Taylor - Texas
Traci - Oregon
Tiernan - Washington
Devin - Tennessee
Laura - Alabama
Ashley - Georgia
Angie - Kentucky
Kristin - Indiana
Mai - New York
Cindy - South Carolina
Melissa - North Carolina
Megan - Virginia
Ann - Minnesota
Linda - North Dakota
Toni - South Dakota