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Discover the power of meaningful life-changing converations.

We’ve all had unique—and often messy—life journeys. You know … the good, the bad, and the ugly. But what if your “messy” life experiences have hidden meanings—that if uncovered could help you have mind-blowing insights about your life’s purpose, and deepen your friendships?

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In this second book in The Friendship series, life coach Shari Leid chronicles a round of dates with her girlfriends where she asks the question “What is the mess that became your message?” And the responses are astounding!

Make Your Mess Your Message encourages each of us to not only give one another the gift of time but to have meaningful life-changing conversations.

What is the mess that became your message?




“Listening to the stories of others who had survived and thrived despite their trauma was what allowed me to thrive despite my own. No story is too messy to be told.” 

- Kirsten Duncan, Creator and Host, Unexpected Launch Podcast  

"Shari's 50/50 Friendship Flow is truly a "movement" that is founded in the power of one-to-one conversations for elevating our voices...

- Carolyn Paola, Year Up National Account Director, Creator of partnerships between non-profits and corporations

...giving us the courage to share our "messes" and unique stories, and helping each of us uncover our similarities, increase our understanding around our differences, and deepen our connections to one another.”

"A compassionate, generous woman, it is no wonder that Shari Leid would conceive the idea about women sharing their triumphs...

- Tracie Frank Mayer, Author of the award-winning book, Incompatible with Nature–Against the Odds: A Parent’s Memoir of Congenital Heart Disease

... tribulations and the lessons they learned from them in order to help other women find their way to becoming the bravest, the best and the fearless women they are meant to be."

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